12 UNDENIABLE AND INTENSE REALITIES ABOUT THE INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE

12 UNDENIABLE AND INTENSE REALITIES ABOUT THE INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE

1. There is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of another woman competing for the attention and affection of her husband. Nothing is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more insulting. Nothing is more belittling and degrading.

2. Marriage thrives when the couple works as a team; when the husband and wife both decide that winning together is more important than keeping score. Good marriages don’t just happen. They are a product of hard work.

1. Your children are watching you and forming lasting opinions on love❤, commitment, and marriage based on what they see in you. Give them hope. Make them look forward to marriage.

2. Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is because someone is taking good care of them. Grass is always green where it is watered. Instead of drooling over the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on yours and water it regularly. Any man can admire a beautiful woman, but it takes a true gentleman to make a woman???? admirable and beautiful.

3. When a husband puts his wife first above everyone and everything except God, it gives his wife the sense of security and honor that every wife hungers for.

4. A successful marriage doesn’t need a big house, a perfect spouse, a million dollars, or an expensive car. You can have all of the above and still have a miserable marriage. A successful marriage requires honesty, undying commitment, and selfless love❤, with Jesus at the center of it all.

5. Pray???? for your spouse daily; in the morning, in the afternoon, and at evening. Do not wait until there is a problem. Do not wait until there is an affair. Do not wait until something bad happens. Do not wait until your spouse is tempted. Cover your spouse with prayer and cover your marriage with the fence of prayer.

1. The people you surround yourself with have a lot of influence on your marriage. Friends can build or break your marriage; choose them wisely.

2. It is simply impossible for one spouse to build and maintain a good marriage by themselves if the other spouse is out there busily trying to tear it down. A successful and healthy marriage can only thrive where both the husband and the wife are in harmonious cooperation, working together in perfect teamwork with a single goal of building up their marital relationship.

3. Do not take your spouse for granted. Do not take advantage of your spouse’s meekness and goodness. Do not mistake your spouse’s loyalty for desperation. Do not misuse or abuse yours spouse’s trust. You might end up regretting after losing someone that meant so much to you.

4. Beware of marital advice from single people. Regardless of how sincere their advice may be, most of it is theoretical and not derived from real life experiences. If you really need Godly advice, seek it from God-fearing, impartial and prayerful mature couples whose resolve has been tested by time and shaped by trials.

1. Dear wife, don’t underestimate the power of the tongue on your marriage. The tongue has the power to crush or build up your marriage. Don’t allow the devil to use your tongue to kill your spouse’s image, self-confidence, and aspirations. Allow God to use your tongue to build up your marriage, to bless and praise your spouse. May God help us all.