When Purpose is real
Actions are a true reflection of a person’s character, while words just show the mask they wear to represent the person they want people to believe they are.
It has never been documented or proven in any meaningful way that just talking and making promises is sufficient to keep a relationship going in the long run.
But it must be recalled that action is a fertile and rich soil where seeds of LOVE and Marriage can sprout and grow.
If someone is really into you, you don’t need to keep begging for calls, texts, or to spend time with them. The person will if you are a priority in their life.
You suffer in a relationship where purpose is not real.
Because every serious date will eliminate fear, doubt, confusion and stagnation.
You don’t remind a serious minded man ” when are you coming to see my parents ”
Or what is it that we are now actually doing?
To where is the relationship taking us.
No! When purpose is real; marriage becomes a priority.
The most precious thing you can give to the care and development of your relationship is, without doubt, “Time.” If you can’t make the investment of your time, then you are never going to be in a position to nurture and develop your relationship meaningfully.
When One Is Really Into You
- Any person for whom you are begging for attention and affection is not, in actuality, in a love relationship with you.
- If one does not invest time and interest in his deeds and goals, it is bound to show that he does not have any definite plans or motives for his life.
- If he doesn’t have his actions to back up his words all the time, then he stays a fake because he is perceived as not genuine.
- If the base of a relationship is built on lies and deception, it will not last for long before it faces the test of time and the trials that come with it.
- Any given relationship that lacks care and attention certainly calls into question the very validity and strength of that specific relationship.
- If your ardent passion and appetite to care and grow your relationship is seen as a signal of desperation.
- (There simply is no future with the person in question.)
- No matter how you may go about to try and pamper or cuddle a heart that is not yet ready to love or be loved, you will most definitely always be labeled a pesky or annoying woman.
- When you’re begging for communication; you’re dating who is not dating you.
When Purpose is real
Be cautious of who you invest your time and money in. If someone is making you feel like you’re just an option in their life, then it’s best to bow out graciously and remove yourself from the situation entirely. Love is wise!!!
